We're good...
"We’re good” … meaning things between two friends couldn’t be any better. They agree along the same lines and are content with the situation. I wish I can say that for myself. The one person I long to be “good” with is God. But there is a hindrance. Because my situation is not “good” with a friend.
I like being there for my friends. And I expect the same in return, which is why I am grateful to how most of my friends have been there for me when I’ve needed them the most. And an important element in friendship is “secrets”. I love how you can talk about anything to certain friends because they’ll feel your pain or joy! Secrets prove your trust in a friend.
So when someone who is supposed to be a so called “close” friend keeps something so important from you and disregards your friendship - it hurts! I feel I’ve been down this road over and over. Not by one, but probably two really good friends. It hurts so bad you don’t recognize the person you knew so well. You don’t feel like sharing your dreams with them anymore.
The link which was so strong was now obstructed by a wall. I already broke the wall with forgiveness but the stones that built it still lie there and had to be removed. God was leading me towards a confrontation. However, before I initiated it - it happened. Everything was said. Feelings hurt. And so the stones were finally moved. The air is clear and I’m at Peace with God.
I've come to realize things can’t go back to how they were with my friend reason being the trust factor is lost. It’s not easy being in a fake relationship and I’m sad it’s come to this. I thought it would be a true friendship till the end but in the words of Nelly Furtado “All good things come to an end.”
As for God and me - "We're Good!!"
=)
I like being there for my friends. And I expect the same in return, which is why I am grateful to how most of my friends have been there for me when I’ve needed them the most. And an important element in friendship is “secrets”. I love how you can talk about anything to certain friends because they’ll feel your pain or joy! Secrets prove your trust in a friend.
So when someone who is supposed to be a so called “close” friend keeps something so important from you and disregards your friendship - it hurts! I feel I’ve been down this road over and over. Not by one, but probably two really good friends. It hurts so bad you don’t recognize the person you knew so well. You don’t feel like sharing your dreams with them anymore.
The link which was so strong was now obstructed by a wall. I already broke the wall with forgiveness but the stones that built it still lie there and had to be removed. God was leading me towards a confrontation. However, before I initiated it - it happened. Everything was said. Feelings hurt. And so the stones were finally moved. The air is clear and I’m at Peace with God.
I've come to realize things can’t go back to how they were with my friend reason being the trust factor is lost. It’s not easy being in a fake relationship and I’m sad it’s come to this. I thought it would be a true friendship till the end but in the words of Nelly Furtado “All good things come to an end.”
As for God and me - "We're Good!!"
=)
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